Let's say you are new on our site and want to pick your first match! There are a bunch of guys around your area. Whom do you choose?

• Keep your eye on how long a member has been on the site.
• For your first meets, prioritize profiles with lots of past opponents and good recommendations. They are our most reliable and experienced members who can show you the ropes.
• If you are looking for a competitive match, best pick someone close to your size and fitness level.
• Never pay for a meet. Never pay any advance for travel, hiring hotel room, etc. Report any user who asks for your money for any reason.
  • Corollary: Never ask for money for a meet.
• Be careful of profiles that look great, but have no meets to their names.
• Don't offer to travel hours or reserve hotel rooms unless your match is an established member with good reputation.
• Always discuss rules and limits upfront.

General internet rules apply: Protect your personal information, meet in a public place first and use good judgement when meeting strangers. Safety first!